Letters

Reciprocity. A word that might be hard to pronounce, but whose definition seems especially appropriate during the holidays. If we understand that the giving of gifts almost always initiates a reaction, and we listen to, or observe, that response, we’ll understand the nature of the gift exchange — even if only in words, smiles or thank-you notes. Each of those responses is also a gift. Sometimes the most important of all.

Gift-giving does not have to be extravagant or costly. It can be, if you wish, but sometimes a gift made by hand or simply with love is the most welcome of all. Often a simple act of kindness can make someone’s day — especially those who are alone or going through difficult times.

Holiday events are already underway this month: Christmas tree lightings, parades, concerts, religious services. Whether wrapped, unwrapped or simply spread across a child’s face, gifts will be all around us.

This year, the Jewish holiday of Hanukkah begins on the same day as the Christian holiday of Christmas, with Kwanzaa beginning only one day later. Each holiday provides its own special gift.

Inside this edition you will find many, many ways to celebrate this December. Take a look, then go out, take your visitors, enjoy the lights and beautiful weather. Reflect, praise, celebrate.

And if you give or exchange gifts this season, please consider both the spirit of giving and the reciprocity of thanks.

Happy holidays!

— Mary Kate Leming,
Executive Editor